I almost feel that this doesn't need an explanation, however, I know you will desire one if you have managed to make it all the way here to read this Urban Dictionary definition.

I sweeten and put the laugh out loud in Emily.

v. collectively or individually finding someone/something to blame for a problem, as opposed to brainstorming which connotes finding solutions to a problem

n. the act of finding someone/something to blame for a problem

(from a TV ad for HD television)