A discreet way of asking a girl if she likes girls/is gay. Inspired by the iconic lesbian musician girl in red. Because if she listens to girl in red, she is most likely lgbt.

The two states of being are as a human being, or a hungry ghost. Semi-regularly you need to ask yourself which you are. Sometimes it is human. Others, alas, it is hungry ghost.

The hungry ghost seeks validity outside of themselves. Someone pining for an indifferent ex is a hungry ghost. Someone who arrives alone at 6:30 on Saturday night to a pub is probably a hungry ghost. Obsessive checking of mobile phones, chat sites or networks are clear signs that one is a hungry ghost.

The best thing to do is just stay home and ride it out. Read a book. Find some good clean fun.

“do you listen to girl in red?” is wlw code for “are you a girl who likes and would date other girls?” a.k.a. a sapphic.

Are you.. you know?

Do you listen to girl in red?

A slang term used by wlw (gay girls) to ask other girls if they like girls, a code word.

To ask somebody if they ‘listen to Girl in Red’ is to ask them if they are a lesbian.
On the other hand, if they say they listen to ‘sweated weather’ than they are bisexual. It’s kind of like a secret lesbian code.

they want to know if you're a lesbian

Yes I do = lesbian
No I don't = filthy breeder