Noun: Bringing your lady out to dinner to warm her up and then you take her home and score.

A pick me is a woman that is willing to do anything for male approval. She will embarrass or throw other women under the bus to achieve this goal. The unfortunate thing about a pick me is usually the men they are trying to seek approval from are of poor quality and treat women badly, leaving little real benefit for the pick me.

upon the purchase of a meal for a significant other, then one has the expectation of sexual favor.