Acronym for "Don't Be Such A Dick".

One step further than its junior cousin, DBAD ("Don't Be A Dick"), it presumes the recipient cannot help but be a dick, and merely seeks to mitigate the amount of dickitude to minimize its impact.

Where DBAD can apply to otherwise OK people, DBSAD acknowledges that the person you're talking to cannot reach the threshold of acceptable behavior and suggests they tone it down to the level they're able to.

A man who messes around with other men, but no one would ever know by looking or talking to him. Used by gay black men to identify masculine gay men or DL Brothas.