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A person who treats others as if they are beneath them, and gets what they want. Even though you know what this person is doing is wrong, you still want to hang around that person. Most of the time, this person is popular amoungst thier peers.

BoneQuesha just slapped her man, took his wallet, and told him to go make her dinner while she is at the mall. She’s a cold mess, but I am gonna go chill with her anyway. He in there cookin right now.
by Taleah December 13, 2007
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Apr 26 Word of the Day
1. The default beliefs installed when you were a child.

2. An unexamined position you absorbed from your environment growing up.
I grew up in a conservative home so my factory settings lead me to vote Republican.
I grew up in a liberal home so my factory settings lead me to vote Democrat.
by riemannslost0 February 04, 2020
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