Attraction to people who's gender identity aligns with the identity they were assigned at birth, and their physical sex characteristics; cisexuality.

A cis-attracted person can either be heterosexual, homosexual, or bisexual because the only defining characteristic of cis-attraction is an attraction to cis men and women.

The two states of being are as a human being, or a hungry ghost. Semi-regularly you need to ask yourself which you are. Sometimes it is human. Others, alas, it is hungry ghost.

The hungry ghost seeks validity outside of themselves. Someone pining for an indifferent ex is a hungry ghost. Someone who arrives alone at 6:30 on Saturday night to a pub is probably a hungry ghost. Obsessive checking of mobile phones, chat sites or networks are clear signs that one is a hungry ghost.

The best thing to do is just stay home and ride it out. Read a book. Find some good clean fun.

Cis-attraction is attraction to individual(s) on the basis that their gender identity aligns with the sex (or gender) they were assigned at birth. A cis-attracted person can be hetero-, homo-, or bi-sexual. All that matters is that they are attracted to cis-persons—regardless of whether or not that person is male (a man), female (a woman), intersex, or was assigned non-binary (X) at birth.