Bougroum is a creature that makes friends, and then disappears and never gives any news. He may also be considered an asshole. When you call him, and try to take the initiative, he never picks up. He inboxes a few months later.

When the “crush” has no intentions of taking things further, but they like the attention. So they flirt here or there, send dm/texts just to keep the person interested, knowing damn well they’re staying single.