Botchtot is the familiar term for the formal term "bitch tit", derivatives follow as "biotchitotti", "botchtotsicles", etc. It can be used as a derogatory term for anyone who's acting stupid or rude. Or annoying

A man who messes around with other men, but no one would ever know by looking or talking to him. Used by gay black men to identify masculine gay men or DL Brothas.