When someone usually doesn’t talk to you and when they do, they say something weird and once you reply, they air you as they are bipolar and dependant on you speaking.

The phenomenon of having to come out as bisexual to the same person/people repeatedly because they assumed or hoped that your sexuality was a "phase." Refers less to the holiday and more to the 1993 Bill Murray comedy film in which the main character experiences the same day over and over.