A “ Big Bottom Boi” is when someone radiates so much Bottom energy that they are in major denial. They are in such denial of their Bottom energy status that they believe that they are a Top Energy people. There are Tops, who are more assertive. There are Bottoms, who are submissive. Then there are Big Bottom Bois, who are the most bottoms of bottoms. Another name for “Big Bottom Boi” is a “Kenzey Larson”.

The two states of being are as a human being, or a hungry ghost. Semi-regularly you need to ask yourself which you are. Sometimes it is human. Others, alas, it is hungry ghost.

The hungry ghost seeks validity outside of themselves. Someone pining for an indifferent ex is a hungry ghost. Someone who arrives alone at 6:30 on Saturday night to a pub is probably a hungry ghost. Obsessive checking of mobile phones, chat sites or networks are clear signs that one is a hungry ghost.

The best thing to do is just stay home and ride it out. Read a book. Find some good clean fun.