Norfolk U.K in origin
A reference to a gay or queer man, relates to the children's T.V series Bodger and Badger on British television from 1989-1999, the main character was a Badger and his owner/Friend who had a close relationship, as close as possible with a man up the rear end of a badger, making him talk and eat mash potato
An urban legend says that Ubuntu operating system was originally going to use the name for it's release 5.10 until they realised what it meant, but no one has ever confirmed if that was the true reason the name was changed.

A casual invitation / threat used by an individual that is not afraid of fucking someone up.