A person who is really cool, deep, and unique. Beji is a person of good energy, peaceful, and beautiful. They look at the world differently and see the beauty. They are very observant and love helping others. They are almost the hippie of the modern world, but different. They like to socialize, have conversations, and think. They can be very distracted or very focused. People of beji energy will change your life.
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The two states of being are as a human being, or a hungry ghost. Semi-regularly you need to ask yourself which you are. Sometimes it is human. Others, alas, it is hungry ghost.

The hungry ghost seeks validity outside of themselves. Someone pining for an indifferent ex is a hungry ghost. Someone who arrives alone at 6:30 on Saturday night to a pub is probably a hungry ghost. Obsessive checking of mobile phones, chat sites or networks are clear signs that one is a hungry ghost.

The best thing to do is just stay home and ride it out. Read a book. Find some good clean fun.

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