A child had by a lower-middle class father who does not care for it or the mother. If a woman has a baby by busta, it means that she was previously in a realtionship that did not necessarily include matrimony but which did result in a child. The father of the child (Busta) is a lower-middle class sterotype which is assumed to have children by women he was not married to, is divorced from now, or just seperated. A baby by busta has a contemporary connotation of being a dilemma for the mother, not necessarily unwanted (although that is a common connotation as well), but under circumstanes which could be more comfortable. Basically, a baby of trashy parents who made a very bad decision in having said baby. Also, Baby is usually dumped on mother, resulting in a single mother.

A pick me is a woman that is willing to do anything for male approval. She will embarrass or throw other women under the bus to achieve this goal. The unfortunate thing about a pick me is usually the men they are trying to seek approval from are of poor quality and treat women badly, leaving little real benefit for the pick me.