BEDJ is the abbreviation of a a select group of awesome members.
The member's names can be changed to fit the group but the group name itself can not.
BEDJ represents a close family that causes other to be envious and try to copy it but they will fail because no other group can live up to the awesomeness it creates.
You can not choose BEDJ, BEDJ chooses you.

When someone thinks they are the main character of their life. Usually comes with a side of individuality complex, quirky style and a self centered point of view.