- a lack of cognitive skill

- the quality of an embarrassing situation; "he sensed the awkwiddity of his proposal"

- the sensation of uncomfortable in a simple social situation by virtue of many unspoken but real factors lurking beneath the surface

- the quality of being wooden and inelegant; "he criticized the awkwiddity of the acting"; "there was a certain awkwiddity in his replies"

to tell someone to calm down and relax.