The feeling of anxiety that a host has when entertaining company because one is so concerned with making sure everybody is comfortable and happy.

Portmanteau of "anxiety" and "xenia" (the Greek concept of hospitality).

The phenomenon of having to come out as bisexual to the same person/people repeatedly because they assumed or hoped that your sexuality was a "phase." Refers less to the holiday and more to the 1993 Bill Murray comedy film in which the main character experiences the same day over and over.