“At least it’s not in my backyard”.

A person that stands back and takes no action against/supports invasive development in someone else’s backyard, while preserving their own. This person complains of “NIMBY’s” not wanting their neighborhoods trashed, but they don’t have to deal with what they’re forcing on another group of people. ALINIMBY’s wouldn’t want this development near them but complains when others push back.

n. The birth name of somebody who has changed their name. Most commonly attributed to trans people, but can be attributed to any person who has changed their name. (sometimes written as two words: dead name)

v. 1. To call somebody by their deadname.
v. 2. To out somebody's deadname to the public.