When, under the influence of some form of alcohol or drug you come across a blinding revelation that seems like it's the most fascinating, mindblowing and important thing in the world, until you sober up when it seems rather trivial. Like seeing a digital clock with the time 22:55 reflected in a window and realising that the reflection also says 22:55...

A pick me is a woman that is willing to do anything for male approval. She will embarrass or throw other women under the bus to achieve this goal. The unfortunate thing about a pick me is usually the men they are trying to seek approval from are of poor quality and treat women badly, leaving little real benefit for the pick me.