A pick me girl is a insecure girl who claims they are always "one of the guys" and insults other women around their "crush". (basically any girl called Ava or Ren or Jay)
Pick me girl - "Oh my god, you saw what layla posted yesterday about her dog dying and how she "doesn't want anyone to talk to her about it"? She is so looking for attention from luke. I know exactly what lukes type is because I'm one of the guys."
Deadass example based on some shit I actually heard irl 😭
Deadass example based on some shit I actually heard irl 😭
by L_lytorres January 5, 2023
A girl who seeks validation from men. They often act different around men than they do girls, their catch phrases could be something like: "I'm not like other girls, I don't like dresses, don't wear makeup and I AM NOT dramatic!" or "I'm not like other girls, I hang out with boys/men because their less problematic!" etc. Some say things like: "OMG, I'm SOOO tiny compared to you, STOOPPPP ITTTT!". There are 2 types of pick me girls, one who acts like a girly girl and refers as a small person compared to the guy she's talking to, or the tomboy-ish one who seeks men validation by 'acting like one of the boys' when she's clearly not.
Example 1:
Normal Girl: Ugh, I was up all night trying to find a good makeup look for the party and-
Pick Me Girl: Oh, really?! Could never be me, I don't wear makeup, I'm too natural and definitely not a 'try hard' so that's why I don't wear that stuff.
Normal Girl: Umm...Okay.
Example 2:
*Talking To A Guy*
Pick Me Girl: OMG! STOOOPP! You know I'm tinier than you so stop bullying me, owy...omg, look at how tiny my hands are compared to yours, let's do a hand comparison-
Guy: Yeah, NO. Let's not do that, in fact, let's not talk at all-
Normal Girl: Ugh, I was up all night trying to find a good makeup look for the party and-
Pick Me Girl: Oh, really?! Could never be me, I don't wear makeup, I'm too natural and definitely not a 'try hard' so that's why I don't wear that stuff.
Normal Girl: Umm...Okay.
Example 2:
*Talking To A Guy*
Pick Me Girl: OMG! STOOOPP! You know I'm tinier than you so stop bullying me, owy...omg, look at how tiny my hands are compared to yours, let's do a hand comparison-
Guy: Yeah, NO. Let's not do that, in fact, let's not talk at all-
by TylerTheCreator2.0 February 14, 2022
An insult aimed at any woman that doesn't mindlessly follow feminist dogma. It can also be used by feminists as a generic insult towards any woman they don't personally like, regardless of the political ideology of the woman being insulted. It is similar to "incel" or "nazi" by which it's meant to undermine any counter made to progressive rhetoric by labelling the critic something negative instead of actually engaging with the argument in good faith.
Ironically, the term "pick me" can be inadvertently sexist, as depending on the context, it implies the only reason a woman would be critical of feminism is for male attention, completely ignoring any other potential personal experiences and philosophies that may influence the woman's opinion.
Ironically, the term "pick me" can be inadvertently sexist, as depending on the context, it implies the only reason a woman would be critical of feminism is for male attention, completely ignoring any other potential personal experiences and philosophies that may influence the woman's opinion.
Eg. 1:
A: "Men are actually statistically more likely to be attacked more often than women when walking alone at night. They're also more likely to be homeless, fall behind in education, and die in workplace related accidents."
B: "Found the pick me girl lol.
Eg. 2:
A: "Personally, I don't support abortion due to my own negative experiences with it and my own religious philosophy."
B: "You're such a pick me!! you only want attention from men!!"
A: "Men are actually statistically more likely to be attacked more often than women when walking alone at night. They're also more likely to be homeless, fall behind in education, and die in workplace related accidents."
B: "Found the pick me girl lol.
Eg. 2:
A: "Personally, I don't support abortion due to my own negative experiences with it and my own religious philosophy."
B: "You're such a pick me!! you only want attention from men!!"
by mel999 April 6, 2023
by NobodyAtAll69 January 16, 2022
A girl who tries to be the "cool girl" to be accepted by guys and throw other women under the bus. Can also be a girl who defends misogynistic, abusive behavior by men; she enables poor behavior by men and allows the men who date her to trample her boundaries for the sake of having a boyfriend. A girl who is so desperate to have a boyfriend that she enables men to treat her terribly and accepts it without calling it out.
Pick-Me Girl: "Ohhh, so Tom didn't call me all of last week and didn't pick up of any of my calls, but it's okay because I've been texting him all week and I hope he'll answer at least one of my texts! And screw Janine, she's so mean to guys; I'm a cool girl and I think Tom is cool even though he won't return any of my calls or texts. I want Tom sooooo bad.."
Ironically, men view Pick-Mes as the Motel 6-tier of women - they are cheap, easy, and convenient to access, but the man would never show them off to his family and friends. And he is always looking for something better, because he thinks that he thinks that he can do better than a Motel-6 PickMe. Why settle for Motel 6 when you can get a better, more sought-after woman who is Ritz Carlton-tier?
Ironically, men view Pick-Mes as the Motel 6-tier of women - they are cheap, easy, and convenient to access, but the man would never show them off to his family and friends. And he is always looking for something better, because he thinks that he thinks that he can do better than a Motel-6 PickMe. Why settle for Motel 6 when you can get a better, more sought-after woman who is Ritz Carlton-tier?
by ladeeedaaa April 13, 2022
A pick me girl is a girl who will do absolutely anything To impress the boys.They are the worst type of human being. I litteraly have no idea why boys like these kind of girls, if your a pick litteraly just go away Leave rn.
by Idktbhhi May 23, 2021
A woman who puts down other women for the sake of male validation.
(I figured of yall needed the REAL definition since I've seen it been on ever girl that is even slightly attractive.)
(I figured of yall needed the REAL definition since I've seen it been on ever girl that is even slightly attractive.)
"I'm like one of the guys so I don't have that many girl friends"
"I don't like wearing makeup because it's fake and I don't like being fake unlike most girls." - Said every Pick-Me Girl ever.
"I don't like wearing makeup because it's fake and I don't like being fake unlike most girls." - Said every Pick-Me Girl ever.
by luciaglossie May 4, 2022