Denial (psychological)
Denial consists of the refusal to accept a past or present
reality and is most commonly employed to protect the host from their own negative traits; to protect them from the repeated memories of the negative actions of another or to avoid recognising their own guilt for past actions, thoughts or feelings.
It is a self defence mechanism employed by aspects of the subconscious mind in an attempt to protect emotional and psychological wellbeing.
Denial can be a scary and very sad thing to witness in someone that you
love or care about; it is generally very difficult to help someone see the
truth and especially for them to truly believe and accept that
reality on a long term basis.
People deny responsibility every day for a number of things; but denial itself goes far deeper into the psyche than that. While
people in denial generally still have the seed of
truth still buried within their heads, they generally cannot believe that it is the
truth even when confronted with it. This is due to the mind in effect rewriting or superimposing a more acceptable
reality over the original memory.
Even with abject proof of an events occurrence, someone in denial is highly unlikely to fully accept the particular reality that their mind has decided they cannot cope with. They are more likely in that instance to use projection or minimisation or to continue or revert back to being in full blown denial.
Are you in denial about your “ability to give a shit”?
Do you deny your cruel words?
Do you deny that you are selfish?
Do you deny that you are shallow?
Do you deny that you lied to me about
love?
Do you deny any blame for your own actions?
Do you deny guilt for
cheating with your mind?
Do you deny that you chose to go back there of all places just after my
birthday to spite me and therefore met him out of your own negativity, selfishness and transference of trust issues?
Do you deny that the only person you will ever really care about is yourself?
12/05/2010