Another way of saying Afterward, originated in Northern California.
How it came about: Saying beforehand, is saying "before" & "hand", now replace before with the opposite, "post" (like in the word postwar, which means after the war), and hand with "foot" because it is also the opposite, and you get Footpost.
Why did John tell me about it footpost, I already paid for the food. Next time let me know beforehand so I don't make the same mistake.
The grindset is a contemporary ideology of self-exploitation disguised as strength, deeply tied to the aesthetics of the “sigma male” and to new digital forms of patriarchy. It promotes the idea that human worth depends on productivity, economic success, absolute emotional control, and the ability to work endlessly, turning vulnerability, rest, community, and tenderness into signs of weakness. Beneath its rhetoric of discipline and power often lies a profound inability to relate healthily to pain, fragility, and human interdependence.
“That’s the grindset, brother. While weak men sleep and complain, sigma males stay disciplined, work in silence, suppress emotions, and build power while everyone else wastes time chasing comfort.”