To acquire strength of character; to display backbone in the face of adversity.
Empathy has its place, but many times what we think is supportive is really only prolonging the process. It’s only by being in enough pain that people become willing to do what they need to. In other words, these three magic words ("grow a spine") can help push people toward, rather than trying to prevent, their breaking point.
Dope: "Oh poor me. What should I do?"
Badass: "Grow a spine and make the choices that someone with self-respect would make."
Single bedroom in 4 bedroom house. Front yard and plenty of parking. Large basement closet only accessible through bedroom, that is well suited for 1-2 lights. Small private patio also only accessible through bedroom, but visible to roommates. Roommates are tidy and respectful, mostly students who work and don't party much. Close to markets and restaurants. Short walk from pearl. Laundry on site. Off-street parking. Deposit is $575.