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Technique where you break up the night in two stage first all over her with compliments and touching then a transition to ignoring her and talking to other girls. By the end of the night she will be begging for it.
Dude, I was playing her hot and cold last night by the end of the night she was begging for the dick.
by The Man1 March 3, 2008
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