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Aka, "Save Your Selves Black Man". A group of successful, accomplished, and determined black men that seek to overcome and withdraw from the destain and disrespect subconsciously directed towards them both personally and publicly from black women of their own culture.

The dysfunctional hostility and refusal of genuine black men leadership and problem solving in preference of black women do as I say or else dictatorship and self interest, is also refered to as the black women's "Gynecocracy" (with programming orgins as far back as slavery to present). SYSBMs hold black women accountable for all their actions and offenses they levy against black men, and do not excuse their actions as society and mass media does to perpetuate, and continue the dysfunction and non loyalty.

After several attempts by black men to help resolve the matter, SYSBMs realizes the effort is futile and the continual programming of black women cannot be overcomed at present. SYSBMs acknowledges the hostility and contempt of black women will only be resolved and corrected by blacks women speaking up amongst themselves and until corrected SYSBMs seek to advance themselves, and protect and save themselves from any further damage black women may cause or likely be complicit in that will be used against them.
After seeing my friend's wife of ten years call the police on him and lie saying he hit her so he loses his job and goes to jail, then file for divorce, take him to state court, recieve alimony, child support, full custody of the kids, takes his pension, retirement, house, and savings, then she went on section 8, recieved food stamps, welfare and other states benefits,... and then seeing her publicity play victim explaining to her boss, family and friends he was awful... and then seeing her posting lies about him on social media, public speaking about him negatively at events to move up the corporate ladder, going on TV and program media shows dissin him, saying that he was no good and did nothing for her or the family, he hasn't built anything, he's lame, she regrets him and now she wants to get remarried to someone else.... and seeing other black women encouraging her through it all and not intervening....WT_? ... Guess I'm going SYSBM.
by Brother Truth Be Told February 23, 2020

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The act of a woman pretending femininity and faking interest in someone for a period of time, to use them for status advancements, resources and provisions, with the intent to later discard them once obtained
I'm finessing this guy online for 300 large just to talk to me. Wonder if he'll do lawn work for me next week. What a simp.
by Brother Truth Be Told April 04, 2020

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