It seems to be that the term 'stalker
' no longer means what it used to mean--the pathological ANONYMOUS
follower and tab-keeper of another person or persons (A detective
who has not been hired and has no real reason to follow someone). The old definition
also would say that a 'stalker
' often has an imaginary connection with the stalkee.
HOWEVER, common usage of the term, along with the term 'creepy', has come to be used as a defense mechanism for anyone seeking justification for not being attracted socially or physically to someone else.
This term is nearly as overdiagnosed as ADHD is in children
. Any women who think an undesirable man might be interested in her will almost always automatically label him a stalker
Note: Far too many idiots think they're more important than they really are. Real stalkers seek out beautiful
, and often famous members of the attractive
gender. 90 percent of the people who use the term couldn't get a real stalker
to save their lives.
A hot girl
who follows you around and shows up at your door is a friend.
An ugly girl who follows you around and shows up at your door is now, according to most, a stalker
A hot guy who gives you flowers is a romantic
An ugly guy who gives you flowers is a stalker