(2) a socially impaired person with the opposite sex.
(3) (the wallflowers or wallflowers) Rock- alternative band lead by Jakob Dylan. Popular in 1996 famous for the song "one headlight"
but are not seen as ass rapable
look but dont touch
tom - 'greg is my wallflower but i dont see my penii inside him'
jess & lauren - 'we are women we have no say in this'