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17.
used to describe something that is very plain or bland. nothing special.
"she's a sweet girl, but she's very vanilla"
by puffallday February 13, 2010
 
1.
Unexciting, normal, conventional, boring.
Vanilla, a bit like this definition.
by hmm November 06, 2003
 
2.
n. The opposite of kinky. Not in any way involved with BDSM.
He was a little more vanilla than I was used to, but we got along fine anyway.
by Bad Grammar Must Die April 16, 2003
 
3.
It's the original of something, like the original Ice Cream flavour. In computergames the original game is called classic or vanilla when the expansion comes out.
by Liedtke March 13, 2003
 
4.
Preferring an activity or thing in its basic and unmodified state. Refers to vanilla ice cream. Used when expressing a preference for having something the traditional way.
I like my burgers vanilla, no mayonnaise or bacon for me please.

Sorry, threesomes just don’t do it for me. I’m vanilla like that.
by KJR August 12, 2005
 
5.
normal and boring sex.
used by more sexually adventerous people kinked to describe the dull sex had by the unimaginative
he's so vanilla he probably thinks leaving the lights on is dirty.
by Sunshine December 13, 2004
 
6.
1 - a type of foodstuff grown in a pod
2 - straight down the line, boring sex, with as little foreplay as possible, the kind of sex that the Catholic Church (proud sponsors of this year's Republican party) want you to have, if you have to have sex at all, and if you're married.
The sex was all right, but she's a bit vanilla for me.
by apricotmarmalade January 14, 2003
 
7.
A member of the boring sexual majority, that has no idea of the raging sexual party of fetishes and swapping that whirls around them.
When we walk up the street from the BDSM dungeon to get to the swinger's party, let's tone down the sexual talk and groping, we don't want to scare all of the vanillas on the sidewalk.
by CaptCook February 16, 2014