tom (to girl at table)- "have you met my roommate"
girlfriend - "we've been married for 4 years..."
girl at table - "damn girl you got tom'd big time"
Common symptoms of being Tom'd are: Losing horribly, throwing controllers, screaming at t.v., loss of respect, ridicule from friends, not wanting to play Mario Kart, and having to leave the house because its late and people need their sleep.
Neil: No Jesse, you just got Tom'd.
Jessie: *throws controller* I'm done with this.
Me: Yea he's 20 beers down at this point. About as tom'd as one can be without actually dying.