A gay couple who are nice, sexless and nonthreatening. Typically they live in the suburbs, have an immaculate house and yard and don't scare the neighbors while they are in fact just as much a slave to heterosexual establishment as everyone else.
neighbor 1: Did you invite the Stepford Fags to the BBQ?
neighbor 2: Naw the wife did.
neighbor 1: Great! They can talk up the women while we put down a few beers.
A "stepford fag" is a gay man who wishes to get married, have kids, and live in a more traditional ‘heterosexual’ community.
Some people use the term to refer to gay men they believe are living an imitation heterosexual lifestyle.
First man: "You know Brain Kinney?"
Second man: "Yeah- that wild guy who used to party all night, haven’t seen him around for a while."
First Man: “Not surprising. Heard he’s settled down and got married.”
Second Man: “Never thought he was a stepford fag.”