A real woman who loves and supports children that are not her own, after having married their father. She helps her husband raise the children and is either appreciated or not - usually not, no matter what she does (or at least not for many years). Most stepmoms have it a lot tougher than stepdads because the expectations are much higher for stepmoms and the criticism is MUCH harsher and more common.
Rarely the mean, controlling, selfish, get-rid-of-the-kids/make-them-slaves, etc. assholes they often are accused of being by kids who do this because they have a biological mom who is furious/jealous her ex-husband remarried and therefore (subtly) manipulates her kids into disliking the stepmom, and also because these kids often have issues due to other forms of emotional/psychological abuse committed against them by their biological mom - which the children will usually be completely unaware of. Usually though, the kids have bad attitudes about the stepmom simply because they just don't like sharing their dad with her, sharing a house with her, and worst of all - when she tells them to act right and then disciplines them if they don't. Most care deeply about the kids and only want the best for them.

Most stepmoms don't just give up and walk away but hang in there and keep working hard to love & support the kids regardless of how they are treated – w/o any expectation they will EVER love her back – which means stepmoms are NOT what they are usually accused of, they are heroes.
Teen #1 told another how her stepmom "didn't care about" her and "treated (her) like crap"
Teen #2 responds: Wow, that sucks, what does she do/not do? Does she yell at you?
Teen #1: No...
Teen #2: Does she ignore you?
Teen #1: No... she always tries to talk to me, even though I'm being totally obvious that I don't want her around... always asking me how I am, how's school, what's going on, what do I want for my birthday, do I need anything... so annoying...
Teen #2: Does she complain about your real mom or your dad in front of you?
Teen #1: No... my mom's alway dissing her and my dad...
Teen #2: Does she not feed you? Not buy you clothes and other stuff you need?
Teen #1: No...
Teen #2: Does she not go to your events, like games, performances, school stuff, other stuff??
Teen #1: No... she goes to more of those than my mom does... even if it's expensive and she has to fly home from work and not even get a minute to eat til afterward...
Teen # 2: Does she hog all the time with your dad?
Teen #1: No, he told me she's always telling him to make sure to spend time with me and my brother without her always being there with us...
Teen #2: Does she criticize you?
Teen #1: No... but dude, yesterday she told me to pick up my candy wrapper off the floor and throw it away... And when I didn't, she told my dad!! ...AND she won't let me watch 12 hours of TV a day!!!
Teen #2: No WAY!! What a BITCH!!!
by Princess H.B.I.C. September 24, 2011
Top Definition
Any woman in a relationship (usually marriage) with a man having one or more children from his last partnership. As far as getting along with dads new mate some step-kid's do and some step-kid's don't. Bottom line is that this woman wants to be with the guy so much that she is willing to step-up to the situation.
A group of young-adult's are having a discussion about their parent's and one says " You guy's who's folk's are still together are fuckin' lucky...my step-mom is a BYATCH, always acting like my mom and shit." Someone else says, " My step-mom is awesome, she don't make me do nuthin' and I ain't neva' seen my dad happier."
by jpg3 May 30, 2011
an evil being whose sole purpose is to make her step childrens' lives as miserable and unenjoyable as possible until the child can't take it anymore and moves out, leaving the step mom with the house, the car, and the finantial stability. She is also seen as "sweet" and "caring" by people who do not know her personally.
My step mom called me a royal bitch yesterday for no reason at all.
by spiteful_stepdaughter April 18, 2005
A very Bitchy person. cannot suport herself, thus dating a man for his money. Always hates the children because they use the dads money and attention. Always hates the real mom. Never does helpful trhings without complaining. Acts nice to people that give them money. Hates even there own children. Big babies, super overdramatic.
Step mom: Welcome to our Home
Person: Heres the $50
Step mom: Thanks you can go now, Honey come here I have a papercut
Dad: ya get a bandaid and stop whining my daughter broke her leg
Step mom: Why don't you love me?
by Stacia Laurence January 03, 2010
1.A poor excuse for an actual mom; someone who tries to make your life as miserable as possible

2.Cinderella's worst enemy

1. My stepmom said my curfew is 3pm, but my stepsister doesn't have one.

2. "Mwahahaha"
by faeriebabe27 December 25, 2008
A crazy bitch with no job who does nothing but watch TV, bitch, and eat. She spends about 12 hours of her day in front of the TV, and the rest sleeping. She manages to con her new husband into giving her whatever she wants, and does everything she can to make living in that particular house a living hell.

Others who don't live with her think she can be a sweet person, but don't be fooled - she is nothing more than a succubus (assuming she's one of the good looking step moms). Otherwise, she's just some random crazy fat bitch your dad boinked after one too many cocktails.

Total bitch.
Any bitch that your dad decided to live with is an example of a step mom.
by Joexi April 30, 2011
A Stepmom is some bitch your dad marrys that lives in your house. All she does is fuck your dad and eat all your food. She'll sit on her lazy ass all day and not do any housework. Then she'll complain about how she can't get along with you and she'll kick you out of the house to live with your older sister.
I hate my stepmom for kicking me out of my house to live with my older sister.
by You_don't_need_therapy June 11, 2010
A woman whom has stepped into your life without caution and once she's been fucking around with your dad for about 2 weeks she thinks she owns him and wants you out of the picture. Basically, a fucking step mom is a wannabe mom, bitch, whore and someone who wants YOU out of the picture, and this cunt always gets her way...
Daughter: Daddy can I have some ice cream?
Dad: Um, I gues--
by Kate<3'sMr.Mathers February 13, 2012
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