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A word derived from the words stud and femme used in the lesbian community to describe a woman who is boyish but in a very feminine way. Stemmes usually dress more feminine than their stud counterparts but are more butch than their femme counterparts.

Stemme, however, may be descriptive of how much emotionality and sensitivity a lesbian has versus how they choose to dress.

Stemme falls under the concept of androgyny as does stud, futch (a femme whose a bit butch), butch, soft butch, etc...

As far as femininity goes:

Femme>Stemme>Futch>Soft Butch> Stud
That stemme thinks she's so fly in her eyeliner, faux hawk and cons.
Stemme by KillaK September 6, 2012
Related Words
stemmie stemmy STEMlord steamo stemmer Stembo stemma stemo Stemboy Stemming
A derogatory term specific to Broken Hill; used to insult or belittle someone you dislike.
You burnt the toast, you stemmy!
Stemmy by squadbhiz June 13, 2016
Staunch, lemon and bosh.
Nuff said
Winning that acca was so stemosh
stemosh by Djdnejis March 17, 2023

stemmin' 

The act of a homeless person, opiate or crack addict standing in a major intersection (during red lights) with an empty plastic drink cup asking each car waiting at the light for money.

The change stays in the cup and the bills are put somewhere else.
"I do like $75 day stemmin' at the highway intersection" Really? I make more at Broadway and Main. Sometimes 2 hondos! I'm gonna buy me some K2 and not have to share it this time! Total tax free! Feelin' me bro?
stemmin' by Cutchacokoff November 17, 2018

Stemmy Martin 

Weed that has a lot of Stems in it. Low grade weed. Another term used instead of "Reggie Bush." Stemmy Martin refers to Hip-Hop artist Remy Martin.
"You got any loud? I don't want any of that Stemmy Martin shit!"
Stemmy Martin by SwishasNKush December 27, 2011

Stemogyny 

Misogyny against women in STEM
Alejandro is a perpetuator of stemogyny. He is a stemogynist.
Stemogyny by Vanesaat22 October 20, 2022