Best deployed in the tone of cold, calculated impersonality so beloved of financial types.
Also useful for the handwringing mustn't judge self-help sector
Rhonda, I think it would be great if you could self-message tha t maybe continuing your meth addiction isn't the optimum life choice for your 8 children
a. Extraordinarily efficient and professional
b. Entirely empathetic and non-judgemental
"I think you need to self-message that selling your children into slavery is not a viable solution to your financial issues involving access to crack"