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1.
To fondle/twist/twirl (play with) a scarf whilst it is still wrapped around a girls neck. By doing so, effectively ending any and all chances of hooking up with girl.
Guy 1: "Oh no, look at Krueger over there, he just engaged in scarfplay....look he keeps twisting her scarf, i hope he's not choking her."

Guy 2: "Yikes, i don't care how drunk he is. Not smooth."

Guy 1: "Yup, he's not getting any tonight."
by monstercock3000 February 18, 2010