In BDSM community, a word (usually irrelevant and strange in the context of the sexual situation) agreed by the participating parties to cease the activity. This is so that the submissive partner(s) can say "stop" and "no" as often as they want during the session and use the safe word when they actually mean it.
Top: *whip whip*
Bottom: Ouch, no, stop, please stop ... FISHSTICKS!
Bottom: Dammit, that's our safe word - now seriously, fishsticks!
A safeword conserns BDSM
sexual acts. In BDSM, begging to stop increases pleasure and reality. A safeword is used to actually mean "stop", since screams for stop aren't sincere. The safeword is usually a normal word, like "pink", "banana", or "door" and is determined before starting play.
Jan: Tonight's safeword is "music".
Rob: Oh no! Stop it! Stop it! Stop it!
Jan: Ooh, you've been a naughty boy.
Rob: Please, I'm begging you!
Jan: Alright, enough for tonight you filthy boy.
In the practice of sado-masochism, a "safe word", is an agreed upon word uttered by the recipient masochist, when he/she can no longer tollerate any more pain administered by the sadist, during a session. Maybe also be used, to indicate they may need a temporary "break" in said session.
An agreed upon word, or set of words, used in any kind of sexual activity, not limited to BDSM
play, that is uttered by any participant to communicate
that they want the activity to be modified.
Sexual safe words could also be called "sexual trust
words", and they're an especially good idea in any kind of sex play
that is exploratory and/or new to any participant.
Different safe words can be created and agreed upon to mean different things, such as, "stop
everything, right now!", "slow down, back off!", "don't stop!", etc.
Safe words should be ones that a participant isn't likely to use as part of the play. They can be complete code, like "Tibet" (stop), "Chicago" (slow down), and "Glesga
" (don't stop), or more obvious, like "red", "yellow", and "green".
No kind of sex should EVER be forced on anyone- that's called rape
! (which is totally different than indulging in an agreed upon rape fetish
)- and the basic idea of safe words is to prevent rape from happening accidentally.
Safe words make for hot s...
A word which describes when the pleasure should stop during sex, before things get out of hand.
Usually something that wouldn't be said DURING intercourse.
Guy: What's tonight's safeword?
P.S: Hi Shannen. LMAO.