ragadouche is a woman who tries to control the mans life she is with, while wrecking all ties to his family more than once. and using their child to keep him around.
shelly: have you seen tina lately?
Brenda: yes, she's being a real ragadouche to her man.
shelly: thats so true, he doesn't deserve him.
Brenda: no i do, lmao.