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Someone who is a bottom but enjoys dictating how things play out in the bedroom and can be very picky.

Or

Someone who claims to be sub in the bedroom but hates not being in charge.
Someone who enjoys "back-seat driving"

Although he was the one on the bottom Joe was a pushy bottom so shouted at John to "go faster" or "slower" and took the entire evening picking who "deserved" to go home with him.
by stubz88 January 16, 2011

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someone who claims to be a submissive in an S&M scene, but actually attempts to dictate the way the scene plays out
Claire warned Mistress that Joey was a pushy bottom; and indeed no sooner than he was tied down, he proceeded to whine about the position, criticize Mistress's choice of implements, and demand she change the background music.
by domino69 June 21, 2010

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