A man who has figured out what women want to hear, in order to get what he wants.

Men and women have different wants and needs. Neither of them is wrong or bad, just different.

Women have established the rules to the game, which are very misandric and smart men have figured out how to "play" the game in order to get what they want/need.

Men wouldn't lie if they were able to say what they really mean and still get what they want at the end of the day.

Hating a man who does what he needs to do to get what he needs is like blaming the victim. He is a victim of rules women have put in place. Hating him for this is also misandry, since men would prefer not to lie, but have not been given a choice in the matter.
He is a player, since he has figured out the rules women have put in place, and has learned through trial and error what works and what doesn't.
by Concerned Citizen 100 November 06, 2008
Deff. Of "Player" or more commonly known as a whore.

Somebody who doesn't know them meaning of morals. Often times manipulative. Has never thought of anybody else's feelings besides their own. Has no heart. Can end a five year relationship and not even get upset. Has a thing for baseball boys. Heartless. Fcking ignorant. Rude. Liar. Considerably good looking. Big ole douche. Has no friends of their same gender. Is an avid instagram creeper. Leaves boyfriend of five years for an older baseball boy.
she's a player, I hate her.
by Truth hurts bitch September 28, 2014
A man that uses women for sex and money. He leaves women confused and heartbroken.
Woman: "That was the man I was getting to know. He told me he loves me, we made love and cuddled one night, then he left in the morning and I haven't seen or heard from him since then."

Her friend: "I hate to tell you this, but he's a player, you need to let go and move on."

Woman: "I know but it hurts. Next time I'll know not to trust a man." (Woman cries)
by His Main Girl September 26, 2014

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