-(noun)A guy who pretends to be gay to hook up with girls at parties. A guy who tells girls that they are gay in order to get with them. They are so cowardly, they cannot show their true identity.
-(verb) The action of convincing a girl that you are gay in order to be friends with them and then later hook up with them. (he phogayed me)
Jen: hey, I'm Jen!
Mark(phogay): Hey, I'm Mark. I'm GAY!!! let's dance!
...10 minutes later... you're kissing with the phogay.