it just means that your man made the biggest mistake of his life and called you fat, and because he doesnt want to get slapped he says he meant it as "p-h-a-t" its an acronym for pretty hot and tempting, or pretty hot and tight, or whatever else he makes up. it works well for guys, cause girls usually think its so adorable and end up forgiving the guy. it happened to me and im so happy i didnt dump him! (although im not fat, bastard)

1. cool
2. Pretty Hot And Tempting

Phat does mean Pretty Hot And Tempting, like the other definitions say. The problem with "phat" is that it is no longer in really. It has kind of phased out and is mostly used by wannabes, lowerclassmen in high school, or middle schoolers. It is now considered a slang faux pas. I wouldn't use it if I was you.

A stupid word.
Stop using it.

In the 80s, an 18 year old inner-city black kid from Richmond, Virginia told me that it stood for "Pussy, Hips, Ass, Tits", And he told me this around 1985. So that word is AT LEAST 27 years old. True Story. Just thought I'd share with you.

A word used by white suburban kids who think they are gangster to describe something "cool"/stupid and used to describe how "gangsta"/gaudy their wigger friend's ricer is.

A word that never should have been invented in the first place.

1. cool.
2. pretty hot and tempting.