When you are beaten in gaming by a pansy or make a comment that is very pansy like
That person (guy): I would like to go to the florist and look at some of the tulips
Pansy: You are such a pansy. (You've been pansy'd)
When you have been either killed in gaming by a pansy or made to look even more pansy-like in any other situation
That person: I would like to go to the florist and pick some flowers.
Pansy: OmG j0o HaVe JuSt BeEn PaNsY'd