The questioner asks usually in an emotional state provoking an emotional response. The questioner loads the question the way a soldier would load ammunition into a rifle; hence the question is loaded
Knowing how Rev. Sharpton responds to any mention of that name, any question asking him about her would be a loaded question posed to cause him embarassment.
Question: Why are you such a crybaby?
Answer: You don't really want to know why I am a crybaby, you're just trying to make fun of me!
Do you know how to answer a f!@#ing phone?
"Yeah, they're going out... That was a loaded question, wasn't it?"
"Yeah, and thanks."
Lisa: "Good thanks, you?"
Nate: "Yeah, I'm Good."
Nate: "Hey, how are you?"
zabi333: "that is such a loaded question, of course all I can say is good."
Nate: "Yeah, I don't even actually care how you are, just filling up the awkward gap."
This type of question may also be asked asked if her desk has been bereft of flowers for more than two weeks.