A radical feminist genderqueer person; someone who espouses both androgyny and radical gender equality politics as a way of life. A person of any sex and any sexual orientation in touch with both hir masculine side and hir feminine side. Associated with punk/riot grrrl music and the Olympia band Sleater-Kinney, who wrote a song called "Ballad of a Ladyman."
"Drew's a ladyman, ze refuses to be defined as a person by hir genitals, and ze is all about questioning assumptions and rejecting binaries!"
by AJ January 12, 2004