A hot tamale is when you're doing a girl in the ass and you tell her you want head. You tell her to close her eyes and before you stick it in you cover your penis in tobasco sauce. The result is obvious.
"Haha, yeah I gave my girlfriend a hot tamale last night and her mouth is still burning...then again, so is my dick."
A confident yet not conceited and super sexy female who turns heads at every corner. She owns every room she goes in, always is the center of attention, has tons of charisma. All her female friends want to be like her, and all the guys want to sleep with her.
"Wow, that girl Amanda is The Hot Tamale of that group"