This means that the person has or intends to have a primarily heterosexual lifestyle, with a primary sexual and emotional attachment to someone of the opposite sex. But that person remains open to sexual encounters and even relationships with persons of the same sex. It is a rejection of bisexuality since the inevitable question that comes up in bisexuality is one of preference, and the preference of the homoflexible is quite clear.
No, I'm not gay, I'm homoflexible
Describes someone attracted primarily to members of the same sex (homosexual
), but occasionally attracted to members of the opposite sex AND/OR able to derive pleasure from romantic encounters with members of the opposite sex.
Homoflexibility is related to, but different from bisexuality
in that homoflexible persons most often identify as gay
, despite occasional relations with members of the opposite sex. The term may sometimes be appropriate as a synonym for bi-curious
, where the individual in question is primarily homosexual
The term "heteroflexible
" was first developed to describe primarily heterosexual
persons who occasionally enjoyed hooking up
with members of the same sex. "Homoflexible" later began to be used as a parallel term as defined above.
Gay Boy: "I hooked up with Tina on the bus the other day. It was great!"
Straight Boy: "Wait a minute, aren't you gay."
Gay Boy: "I'm homoflexible, dude. Making out with girls is fun! Just don't tell my boyfriend..."
someone who is primarily homosexual but can find someone of the opposite sex appealing.
i would say that i'm lesbian but sometimes i find men attractive, and im definitely not bi. i guess you could call me homoflexible.
A homosexual person who on occasion will have straight sex.
"That girl is hot, but she is homoflexible: you have to catch her at the right moment to hit it, she usually gets up with girls."
A bit like Hetero-Flexible but Homo-flexible is when one is homosexual, but would comsider doing something with the other sex. This mostly excludes dating the other person, because if you did it would make you BiSexual.
Thomas really likes guys, he knows hes not straight, but Katie is quite appealing to him. He'd consider her as a hookup, nothing more.
This would make Thomas Homo-flexible
A gay man or woman who has sexual play with someone of the opposite sex under certain circumstances thereby making them a "homo" who is "flexible." Not "bi" where they actively are interested in both sexes, but a person who is normally 100% gay who engages in sex or some sort of sexual encounter with someone of the opposite sex for various reasons such as in exchange for something, circumstantial timing, for fun, or out of boredom.
A Homo Flexible could be submissive lesbian who has a male dom, or a twink with a female dom. A Homo Flexible could be a gay man or a lesbian who sleeps with or masturbates an opposite sex friend out of pity or to console them. Needing sexual release, a Homo Flexible could be a gay or lesbian who grabs the first willing person to "take care of their need" even if the person is of the opposite sex.
I'm gay but shit happens
I got way too drunk at that party last night, I saw this hot ass dude and that's when I knew I was homoflexible
Mostly enjoys sexual relationships with those of the same gender but occasionally dabbles in "opposite sex" sex.
Usually, just a phase.
I went out last night to a straight club and ended up having a homoflexible moment. I made out with a hot fireman then took him home and didn't cook him breakfast but he certainly cooked for me.