a sexual fetish community in which a man (the feeder) gorges a woman (the grower) to the point of imobilizing her. It is a queen-bee fetish in which the feeder worships the grower who, being immobile, must rely on him for her every need. They have sex in her belly-button, and progress is measured by the increasing depth of her belly button.
I saw a real live grower and feeder couple down at Folsom Street.
by dumpywhore April 28, 2005