A different definition than the goth/raver hybrid.

A secret act carried out that is so embarrassing or awful that you will die before telling anyone what you did...even your closest friends.

This usually falls under the whole, "It sounded like a good idea at the time" deal. Luckily, there are no witnesses.

Destroying something by accident, the biggest lie one would ever tell or a sexual escapade that would bring down the furious wrath and ridicule of one's friends. Forever.
I will never speak of my sex-fest I had with the siamese twin midget transexuals I met at the circus. Although I enjoyed it, I'm keeping this story as a graver.
by beautifulbastard August 02, 2009
Top Definition
a graver is a goth mixed with raver, but in

1. goth + raver = mostly seen dancing at raves
Style: wide cargo pants with lots of pockets and material-strips hanging from sides, tight t-shirts, hair usually in dreads, or ponytails, or sometimes in some weird arrangment of ponytails, dreads and shaved sides, not to forget large boots beneath the wide pants, preferrably New Rocks or some platformed cybershoes, also large.
Colors chosen: all fo them, usually sticking to 2-3
Accessories: thin bracelets, and of course some nice sports sunglasses, red, blue, violet and reflective

2. industrial + raver = mostly seen at some sort of gabber/ hardcore/ darkcore/ terrorcore party, sometimes a GOA party as well.
Style: look up definition n.1
Colors: The preffered ones are not happy-go-lucky ones, as in pink, yellow, blue or whatever. Colors are preffered as in darker ones: red, military dark green, black, dark blue; or cyber-themed: one or two chosen colors that are neon and bright, that go in combination with prevailing black color
Accessories: look up definition n.1

Those that are generally more goth's than industrial fans, prefer going to goth clubs as well (meaning, ebm, synthpop, and so on), industrial types of ravers they either stic to darkcore, terrorcore, and if possible go to some harsh noise, industrial parties.

Sometimes a mix of an industrial + goth + raver is born. And thus is born the greatest party animal alive
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The examle of a graver, sadly the pants are barely seen
Take out the spaces only
by GraverGir November 28, 2006
Someone who has attributes of a goth and a raver.
I'm so gravered-out with this corset and these furry legwarmers.
by Haiyaku July 30, 2005
a graver is an interesting character who can be best described as a goth raver. theses gravers are usually not poser goths and they love to rave. normalvery happy around others they are willing to teach anyone how to properly rave and then laugh at you when you suck.
james is such a graver! always with those freaking photons. but hes awsome to hang with
by mercykillings May 30, 2005
shortly Graverobber..

Graver:I was in Pripyat..
Graver:To many things for scavenge..
Man: Yo you are crazy..
by CeCoMacino April 16, 2010
Those who feel some affinity to the goth scene but who also like dance music (techno, trance etc... Can be found at the more underground parties, normally waving glowsticks around wearing mainly black with UV colours. Comes from mixing the words goth and raver.
"You can't be a goth, you're wearing pink!"

"That's because I'm a graver!!"
by immiscibility July 28, 2005
a goth that is a raver also
kids with glo sticks at a goth club are gravers.
by stereocrumb May 19, 2005
Trendy Goths who decide they like techno. Either for emotional reasons or cool points. Sometimes they may attend an occasional rave, but they will never be seen raving. They are the ones wearing black fishnet and sitting in the corner grimacing with their imaginary juggalo friends.
"hi!!! want a sticker? how aboot some glitter?"

"fuck off. I'm too cool for this shit."
by Colleen. July 14, 2004
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