However, for traditional italian-americans, especially those around federal hill, this word derogatorily refers to a male that a girl is cheating with on her boyfriend/husband. This is a slightly more narrow definition, but can be extended as a generally negative term to use against italian american males
An Italian New Yorker with greased back hair carrying a baseball bat saying "Hey Tony, get a load of Sammy Sosa over here!" to ever black person that walks past him may be called a Goomba.
Example: Trey Love