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when a male has a legitimate opportunity with a female and he fails to act upon it he is then put on gaybation. he then has to score with said female in a decided upon amount of time. friends have the right during gaybation to make fun and give absolute hell to the male on gaybation until he has filled his duty.

*context of the situation and enviorment are factors in being released from gaybation
scoring ranges from a kiss on the mouth the getting the girl pregnant

"you are hereby declared on gaybation"
by Apt 1515 September 23, 2008