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1. when someone claims to be your friend but always takes from the relationship, never giving anything in return; whether it be emotionally or physically (money, goods, borrowing items, favors, etc.) sometimes they do this even when you don't want them to or try to say "no".

2. taking advantage of a friendship
"Jeannette's friend uses her for free babysitting but always says 'no' when asked if she can watch Jeannette's kids while she runs to the store. Her friend has also borrowed things and broken them without paying to replace them. She is being friendship raped."
by mama drama March 03, 2014