Me and my friends mad this shit up. it means that your pissed... or you want something realy bad.
<me> yo how "flaring" are you man?
<my friend> im fucking flaring dude i jsut lost my $...
<me> I am "flaring" hunggry let so get some food..
A sexual practice used by those into pain/sexual experimentation were small amounts of lighter fluid are placed on the bellies of both individuals and at the moment of shared orgasm it is lit, creating light, in the dark, heat and some pain. Closing the bellys together extinguishes the flame but there is a challenge in holding out as long as possible. Newbies protect themslevs with a layer of vaseline to get the heat but not the burn.
Related but on the other side of the spectrum from SPLOSHING.
This chick was beyond sploshign and way into flaring.